Boyfriend – Do you have a great big buddy who lives at home with you, but is willing to take it to the next level and treat you like a couple? Are you starting to develop a serious crush on your friend who just doesn’t feel the same way? Is the thought of him possibly pushing you away keeping you from dating others?
If you have answered yes to any or all of these questions then it’s time to stop wondering, and start taking action to make this relationship GVE. Instead of wondering if you should go ahead with a possible romance with your buddy, why don’t you try to be romantic with him? If you’re not sure what to do then you can learn a few tips on how to show him and him your personal feelings and we’ll go into that a little bit later.
TIP: You absolutely MUST see a therapist if you have issues with your best friend and overcoming the friendship issues. No matter how much you think you should move on, it’s too risky to continue without support.
Make yourself scarce…
Sometimes best friends give the best possible support to girlfriends and women who are going through difficult times. If you’ve decided that you should try to bring some sort of romance into your friendship, and you’re just not sure how to do it or have the time, it is advisable that you make yourself scarce. Do not change your schedule too drastically…but try to find a time, probably in the middle of the night, when you can stay on the phone and have a long session.
Interaction is crucial, it’s impossible to have a simple and healthy relationship without effective interaction between two people Boyfriend. Where there is significant touching between two individuals there is an inherent potential for romance to bloom.
Focus on your emotions…
If you’re having a difficult time trying to decide what you should do next regarding your friend who’s just picking up that phone, or who he is friends with, then you should probably lay out some clear instructions on what you want. All too often in a friendship you can allow yourself to get swayed by what you are feeling, which is majority of what you are feeling. Now is not the time for that if you desire to stay available to him. It could be that you can’t stay around him all the time even if you wanted to.
Make him prove he’s worth it…
What you want to occur is that he has to prove to you, and to you alone, that he’s worth your every effort. Attempt to make him prove that he is an individual worth your attention. Could he care less about all the gear you are wearing? We will do it all for you. Wear something sexy, something that will show off your sensibilities, but only wear something appropriate for the setting. Attempt to be the best mouthpiece for whatever he has going on that would usually require an answer, or it could be merely to alleviate his stress.
Either way, believe it or not, this is the man you want to have something going with. Show it to him, tell him how you feel, and do it often. Part of the wall that he has to climb as you go from friendship to a relationship is a very tall order. Be patient and elusive, but not too much that it loses it’s appeal for you.